Some divorces are relatively smooth. Others feel like a battle from start to finish. You’re not alone if you and your spouse can’t agree on anything—child custody, property division, or spousal support. High-conflict divorces are challenging, but they can be managed with the right strategy and legal guidance.
At Steslicki & Ghannam, our Plymouth family law attorneys represent Michigan clients facing contentious divorces with professionalism, persistence, and a deep understanding of the law. If you’re going through a difficult divorce where every issue is disputed, here’s what you need to know about your options and how to protect your interests every step of the way.
Understand What Michigan Law Requires—Not What Your Spouse Demands
In high-conflict divorces, emotions often take over, and one or both spouses may dig in their heels. It’s important to step back and focus on what Michigan law requires, not what your spouse insists on.
Michigan is a no-fault divorce state, which means you don’t need to prove wrongdoing to end the marriage. However, the court can still consider factors like financial misconduct or abusive behavior when dividing assets or determining custody.
When your spouse refuses to cooperate, our attorneys can help keep the process grounded in the law, not in emotional reactions or unreasonable demands.
Prepare for a Fight Over Property Division
Property disputes are common in Michigan divorces, especially when the couple has accumulated significant assets or when one spouse believes the other is hiding something.
Michigan follows the principle of equitable distribution, meaning marital property is divided fairly, not necessarily equally. When spouses can’t agree, the court will make that decision.
Common sticking points include:
- Who keeps the house?
- Division of retirement accounts.
- Business interests or investments.
- Debts and loans.
Working with our skilled divorce law attorneys ensures that all assets are identified, valued, and presented accurately to the court.
Custody Battles Require Focus on the Child—Not the Conflict
If children are involved, custody and parenting time can become the most emotionally charged part of the divorce. When parents disagree on everything—from where the child should live to how decisions are made—the court will decide based on the child’s best interests.
Factors the court considers include:
- The emotional ties between each parent and the child.
- Each parent’s ability to provide a stable home.
- The child’s school, community, and support systems.
- Willingness of each parent to foster a relationship with the other.
Judges expect both parents to prioritize the child’s well-being even in high-conflict situations. Our lawyers can help present a custody plan that reflects your involvement and commitment.
Litigation Isn’t Always the Only Option—But Be Ready If It Is
While mediation can be helpful, some high-conflict divorces are best resolved in court. If your spouse refuses to compromise, you need an attorney prepared to litigate effectively.
At Steslicki & Ghannam, PLC, we advocate aggressively in court while exploring opportunities to resolve issues through negotiation. We aim to protect your rights, minimize unnecessary conflict, and help you move forward with strength and clarity.
Contact our Michigan family law attorneys today to discuss your contested divorce and get the guidance you need to face every challenge head-on.
